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It's over... What went wrong?
Why can't I let go?
 

Some monumental discoveries of Magi Society research:  
See examples below... 

+ the all-important Ten Magi Principles of Love
and the Magi Astrology Principle of Predicting Future Relationships

Magi Helena does relationship assessment in three parts:

                           1. Analyze the couple together
                           2. Analyze each individual
                           3. Analyze the ruling relationship chart

Step 1: Analyze the couple together with Magi Astrology

    How would you be together? Or, How are you together?

    Get detailed information, whether you've just met, or have been together for years.

    Analysis of each person's birth chart with the other person's birth chart reveals the way the two people's energies work with and against each other. It reveals how the couple will likely interact:

The couple's ability to achieve emotional intimacy
The nature and intensity of sexual attraction
Domestic compatibility
Likelihood and nature of shared interests
Scope and nature of differences
Areas of antagonism
Likelihood of effective conflict resolution
How the pair will relate to the world as a couple
Likelihood that the couple will marry

     This analysis will reveal not just these basics, but also how these key areas are likely to grow or change over time and the most positive ways of approaching the parts of the relationship which are difficult.

          Real-world examples make it easy to demonstrate how common astrological energies play out...

More about Soulmate Linkages...

The Ultimate Sexual Linkage is only one of many sexual patterns identified by
Magi Society research. Each pattern has its own flavor and its own duration. Some Sexual Linkages last forever, some burn out IF AND ONLY IF a couple marries, and some inevitably burn out with time whether or not a couple marries. Juno Sexual Linkages WITH Captivations create Sexual Captivations. Sexual Captivations create extreme sexual intensity coupled with an imbalance of power unless there is Saturn Balance. Can create desperate obsessions and can be very destructive- see examples at right.

 

More about Sex...

Note: A few pairs in the Heartbreak and Nuclear Clash categories are notable antagonists rather than couples.



More about Nuclear Clashes...

More about Clashes...

*Famous couples who are still together and who have major clashes may not be listed these categories until the clash publicly manifests itself. You would be amazed at what some people are living with...

    When considering any relationship, it is important to realize that a couple may have many vastly differing linkages and clashes. Relationship inter-aspects do not offset each other, their energies are all felt in the relationship. 

See Ten Magi Principles of Love

Step 2: Analyze each individual with Magi Astrology

    One example of the results of Magi Society research:

    The discovery of the real astrological aspects that incline people to stay with one person, to move on repeatedly, or to stray. "Faithful" aspects incline people to be faithful to their partner. "Wanderer" aspects incline people to move on unless their relationship is deeply satisfying, and some wanderers may stray before they're single again. "Cheater" aspects incline people to cheat on their partner. These natal aspects are no guarantee of behavior- a person with faithful aspects can still choose to wander, a cheater can choose to remain faithful. This is a FREE WILL UNIVERSE. Anyone, at any time, can choose to follow negative impulses or to honor their commitments. Don't panic if your partner doesn't have faithful aspects or has wanderer or cheater aspects! This bears repeating-- anyone, even if they don't have faithful aspects, even if they are a confirmed cheater, can choose at any time to be faithful. That's the power of FREE WILL. Still- it's still useful to know someone's possibilities....


            Celebrity examples of the Faithful, of Wanderers, and of Cheaters:                               *Why we use celebrity examples

The Faithful*: Linkage between any two of these: Venus, Vesta, or Jupiter

The above examples illustrate the type of detailed information
which is available in an analysis of romantic potential in natal charts using Magi Astrology.

Step 3: Analyze the ruling relationship chart

    How will you see the relationship? What do you have to gain or lose from the partnership?

     The ruling chart of your relationship is a crucial key to the relationship's potential- it can dramatically influence happiness or heartbreak, success or failure and help determine if the couple will move on to the next stage of their relationship.

For new acquaintances, the ruling chart is the chart for the first face-to-face meeting.*
For lovers, the ruling chart is the chart of the first time you made love.
For engaged couples, the chart of your engagement is the ruling chart.
For married couples, the chart of the wedding is the ruling chart.

    Even as a relationship progresses, the meeting chart continues to play a role until a couple marries, and to some degree afterward.....

    The ruling chart by itself is a key to the basic strengths and weaknesses of the relationship and its likely outcome. It also has much to do with how each partner perceives the relationship.

    Comparing the ruling chart to each individual birth chart reveals what each partner stands to gain or lose from the relationship, such as:

Individual potential for happiness & satisfaction
Individual potential for career success
Personal issues the relationship is likely to trigger
Potential for heartbreak
 

ALL of the above, and more, must be analyzed in order to understand a relationship in its entirety.

 *See examples below: Celebrity Heartbreak Wedding Dates, Celebrities whose Wedding Date helped or wrecked their career.

See Ten Magi Principles of Love

    Ready to take your relationship to the next step?
    Know when you are seen in your best light and when you are seen at your worst. Know when to ask for commitment and when to take utmost care to be at your best to avoid heartbreak. A personal Cinderella calendar lets you see your own cycles to help you choose important dates to maximize a relationship's potential and avoid heartbreak.

Plan ahead! See your year at a glance.
Your Cinderella Calendar lets you know in advance your personal best & worst days for love.

The DATE YOU GET MARRIED creates the
astrological birth chart of your married life.

     Computerized statistical research by the Magi Society into 10,000+  wedding charts has proven our findings beyond doubt. Your wedding date will determine the amount of love and peace within your marriage, the amount of protection from harm,
the individual partner's career success and the financial success of your marriage,
and even future children.

THE MOST IMPORTANT CHOICE YOU WILL MAKE FOR YOUR WEDDING IS TO CHOOSE AN OUTSTANDING DATE!

           Famous couples who married on a Heartbreak Day:                    *Why we use celebrity examples

    Famous couples who are still together, who married on a Heartbreak Day, and who have not yet experienced public heartbreak are deliberately omitted from this list.

Conversely, even Heartbreak Clashes can be overcome by a perfect or nearly-perfect wedding date. See Heartbreak Clashes.

See Ten Magi Principles of Love

Your wedding date can also make or break your career.
In fact, one of the best ways a person can improve their chance for super-success is to marry on an outstanding day.
 

    Magi research has discovered that your personal potential for success can be measured by the number of "Super Aspects" in your birth chart. See Super Aspects in Magi Astrology. Further, the linkages and clashes from your natal chart to your wedding chart can immensely improve, or detract horribly from, your personal success potential. When a marriage ends in divorce, whatever improvements and whatever impediments you receive from your wedding chart are completely dissolved. If your wedding date helped your career skyrocket, divorcing can destroy everything.

The following celebrities' marriages or divorces notably strengthened or devastated their careers:

Andre Agassi had three horrible clashes including a heartbreak clash with his wedding chart to Brooke Shields. His career plummeted during their marriage, then came back strong after their divorce.

Cate Blanchett gained 9 Super Aspects from her marriage to Andrew Upton in 1997. Her breakout role came one year later, launching her into a multi-million dollar career. She since has been nominated for 4 Academy Awards, winning the Oscar in 2005. 

Julia Child's husband introduced her to gourmet cuisine after their 1946 marriage. The 6 Super Aspects she gained from her marriage chart helped her become one of the world's most successful and beloved celebrity chefs and authors.

Kevin Costner gained 10 Super Aspects from his marriage to Cindy Silva. During the marriage Costner wrote and produced "Dances with Wolves" which made hundreds of millions of dollars and won 7 Academy Awards. After their divorce, his next film was a notorious fiasco, and his career has never recovered.

Robert Downey, Jr. gained 4 Super Aspects from his 1992 marriage to Deborah Falconer but had 13 horrible clashes to his wedding chart including 2 Heartbreak Clashes and 1 Nuclear Clash. Despite critical acclaim, Downey battled addictions, was arrested repeatedly, spent time in prison, but eventually achieved sobriety in 2001. His 2005 marriage to Susan Levin brought him 6 Super Aspects with only 3 clashes and movie mega-stardom at last.

Farrah Fawcett gained 7 Super Aspects from her marriage to Lee Majors and became a worldwide star. After their divorce, she virtually disappeared from the public eye.

Hugh Jackman's talent had already been recognized before his 1996 wedding to Deborra-Lee Furness, but the 6 Super Aspects he picked up from his wedding chart helped him gain super-stardom and multi-million dollar earnings.

Nicole Kidman gained 5 Super Aspects from her marriage to Tom Cruise, but also had 4 horrible clashes. During the marriage, her fame increased, but her career didn't really get off the ground their divorce, after which she won an Oscar and a Golden Globe Award.

Sarah Jessica Parker and Matthew Broderick each gained 8 Super Aspects when they married. Both of their careers have soared since their marriage, Parker's career into the stratosphere.

Meg Ryan's 1991 marriage to Dennis Quaid brought her 10 Super Aspects which she lost with their 2001 divorce. All of Ryan's major hit movies happened during the marriage, and though she continues to work, her popularity has not yet reached its earlier peaks.

Jessica Simpson gained 8 Super Aspects from her marriage to Nick Lachey; Lachey had 4 horrible clashes with their wedding chart including 2 heartbreak clashes. Her career took off while they were married, his faded away. Simpson's career has yet to get back on track since their divorce.

Sylvester Stallone gained 15 Super Aspects from his marriage to Sasha Czack and during the marriage Stallone's movies made billions and won 3 Academy Awards. After their divorce, his success could be called moderate at best.

Meryl Streep's 1978 marriage to Don Gummer brought her 9 new Super Aspects. By 1979 she was nominated for her first Oscar, and she has since become one of Hollywood's most respected and top-earning actresses. Streep has been an Oscar nominee a total of 13 times, winning 2 Academy Awards.

John Travolta's career was in a long slump when he married Kelly Preston in 1991 and gained 11 Super Aspects. Afterward, his career comeback has been notable.

Shania Twain's lifelong pursuit of success didn't pay off until she married Robert "Mutt" Lange and gained 7 Super Aspects. During the marriage, Lange sold 10's of millions of albums and won multiple Grammy Awards. The pair split in 2008, and it remains to be seen if Twain's career can regain its earlier momentum.

Reese Witherspoon gained 8 Super Aspects from her marriage to Ryan Phillipe, won an Academy Award and became the 3rd highest-paid actress in Hollywood. The couple divorced in 2007-as yet the talented Ms. Witherspoon's career has not bounced back.
 

It's important to realize that clashes between a natal chart and a wedding chart and the trouble they cause
are no one's fault! We can, however, learn from these lessons and choose to marry on a fabulous day.
 

**Celebrities whose careers tanked after marriage and are still married will not be mentioned until they divorce.

    
    Magi Astrology can tell you when to look for your soulmate, when you can find a casual date, or when all you're likely to find is heartbreak. Magi Astrology can tell you when you have sound judgment and when you could succumb to wishful thinking or even make devastating mistakes.

Magi Astrology can tell you the likely outcome of any relationship- even with someone you've just met.
All you need is their correct month/day/year of birth- nothing else!

Know your relationship's potentials BEFORE you're in over your head.......
See what you can learn with nothing but a birthdate:

About the relationship    About the person

See Ten Magi Principles of Love

Having trouble letting go? Want to know what went wrong?

Just 15 - 30 minutes is usually enough time to decisively explain why a relationship didn't work out or just wasn't meant to be.
Then you can let go and move on to a new love with REAL potential for lasting happiness.....
 

 The Magi Society's research-based Ten Principles of Love:

1. You are most likely to meet your true love during a time when you are having at least one Cinderella Transit.
2. The more Cinderella Transits you are having at a particular time, the more likely it is that you will meet your true love at that time.
3. If you meet someone for the first time while you are having a Heartbreak Transit, it is likely any relationship with this new person will end up inflicting a heartbreak on you. This is true even if you are also having any Cinderella Transit(s) at the time.
4. Unless two lovers form at least one Romantic Super Linkage, there is only a small chance the two persons would actually ever marry. This is true no matter how much they think they are in love. 
5. If two persons form a Heartbreak Clash, there is a high probability that their relationship will result in heartbreak. But heartbreak is not inevitable for the couple – the couple can avoid heartbreak if they marry on a day that is astrologically highly favorable.
6. A Sexual Linkage is not a sign of love; but Sexual Linkages create the illusion of love, especially when two persons are young. When two persons form a Sexual Linkage, they have to be especially careful in order to not mistake lust for love. 
7. Similarity does not mean compatibility. Linkages are signs of true compatibility between two souls. The more Linkages any couple forms, the more compatible they are.
8. Incompatibility is not the result of two persons being different. Clashes are the true signs of incompatibility and stress between two souls.The more Clashes any two persons form, the more incompatible they are and the more stress their relationship will have.
9. When two persons form more Clashes than Linkages, the two souls are not compatible and are not likely to fall in love and stay in love. 
10. No matter how much two persons love each other, and no matter how well their two astrological charts match up, if the two persons get married on a horrible astrological day, their marriage would still be tumultuous and stressful, and probably result in heartbreak.

The Magi Astrology Principle of Predicting Future Relationships:

Combined Planetary Geometry creates attraction and/or ties between the two persons that form the Planetary Geometry.  Two persons will not have any serious association with each other unless they form strong Planetary Geometry. The more powerful the Planetary Geometry, the more serious the relationship that develops, and the longer it will last.

How to identify and analyze Planetary Geometry

     Magi Helena is a sensitive and caring Astrologer, and you will feel deep acceptance and compassion for your personal
 and relationship issues. She gauges each reading upon what you need and are ready to hear and understand.
Her deep spiritual reverence is combined with fun, humor, practicality, and common-sense wisdom.

*Note: Starred terms are my own, and are not official terms in Magi Astrology.
 

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